Running The Option

In football, the option typical means having such versatility that you can elect a variety of running plays. Coaches often run the option when they want to control the game or time of possession. Hmmmmm now let me equate that to relationships. Much of what keeps many of us single is "The Option". For example, one man may be dating 4-7 different women at a time that bring various characteristics to the table. With these women he can control "time of possession" and have offensive control by keeping them in limbo without having to take the risks of "the passing game". In dating many don't like the passing game because you may run the risk of getting picked off. Hmmmmm but sometimes in life it is no nuts no glory and if you want to win the game you have to get out the pocket and scramble or have to throw that hail mary. Yeah you may lose, but what if you win. Pride and self-elusion is keeping many lonely with options. What is the point of having options if you can't rely on the star player. Just something to think about.