What's Your Purpose?

I know it has been a while since I posted, but now that I have some free time I will pick up where I left off. So lately I have been engaging in conversation with a yound gentleman and we have been discussing how culture impacts relationships and things like that. Well today we were talking about knowing your role and what not. My viewpoint on the matter is very simple. I feel that each relationship in which we engaged is meant to serve a purpose. It is meant to teach us something about ourselves and how to proceed with others. So if a man dogged me out, yeah it may have hurt but what I ask mysel. f is what did I contribute and how can I avoid this in the future. There are some guys that I may be friends with and I treat them with care, compassion, and respect and because of the way I treat them they think  I am "the one". This is usually not the case, but it does give them some insight on how they like to be or should be treated. There are women that still act like ladies and have no problem catering to a man if he deserves it. Likewise there are still men who value women and have no problem showing their appreciation. We just have to take the time to understand and learn who those people are in our lives when presented. Just my personal opinion.